Ari Shaffir: Passive Aggressive (2013) Here's to growing up. "Passive Aggressive," Ari Shaffir's first special, is an act of defiance against responsibility. Why let people you hate choose how you live your life? Love has always been too much effort. Live apart from your spouse. Refuse parenthood. And screw with your friends. Just because your'e an adult doesn't mean you have to grow up.